Unsolicited advices are often not taken seriously. How would you like it if you’re doing just fine then some random person tells you that you’re living your life wrong? Mince it with your cynicism and that person better be an advocate for cooler earth ’cause you will most certainly give them ice age. The advice whether applicable or not gets thrown out the window.
This is a very old line “It’s not what you said but how you said it.” People have feelings and some of them are more sensitive than the rest. Some might argue that it’s stupid but so as commenting on people’s lives seemingly uncaring of what they feel.
We are leaving this here for everyone including us. Even good advisers need a bit of advice. -aB